You Deserve What You Want...

Yes, you read that right.  You deserve what you want.  You might think you know this already.  Many of us think we already believe this, and yet still wonder why we don't get what we're after in life over and over.  Sometimes, secretly, we do have an idea of why we don't think we deserve what we want.  We never tell anyone about these doubts though.  It could be guilt about something we can't forgive ourselves for (like not working as hard as we think one should). It could also be something more specific like hurting someone we care about in the past, but honestly it doesn't matter.  We all deserve what we want with regard to our own happiness and circumstances.  That's a fact.

The key is to let go of the idea that happiness is something that needs to be earned.  Happiness is not some possibly unattainable, distant goal nor should it be.  Your happiness is inside you right now, and the circumstances that go with it are waiting to manifest for you.  It's only your own mind that is blocking you from these things.  Your own, doubting, fearful, second guessing, guilt-filled mind.  Those blocks are just tests.  They're there to give you a chance to see that you can be happy anyway, you just have to let those things go.  You just have to give yourself permission to be happy, and to allow that which you want to be yours.  It's simpler than it sounds, but I do understand that does not mean it's easy.  Our minds are stubborn bastards aren't they?  They get in the way of our common sense and our wisdom all the time.  It's a challenge that we've come into existence to face by learning through the experiences this dynamic creates.  Still, just believe you deserve it, and you do.  That is all for now, talk to you soon...

The Personal Power Coach