It's Not Your Fault...

It's not your fault...whatever it is that's holding you back from the life you see yourself living.  It's totally not your fault that this obstacle exists (in many if not most cases), but it is your responsibility to fix it and make your life happen.  That, my friend, is a fact.

If you play the victim, you're already disputing this fact, but it's still a fact.  I get it.  Your obstacles are very real to you, I'm aware of this.  You're not the only one who's ever had to face those though.  You think you are, but it's just not so.  It's simple.  If you want a better life, you have to face your life as it is.  You have to accept that you have created this, although mostly not consciously.  It's not the world, it's you.   The sooner you say this out loud to yourself and are not embarrassed, ashamed, or frustrated by it, the sooner your life will start to turn in a direction that you like better.  That much you can trust.

Your life will change as you start to feel more powerful, more in control.  You'll feel that way because you're now working from the place you should have been working all along.  You'll be operating from the "driver seat" of your world...of course, now you're going to have to learn to drive, and then you'll have the power to get out of the woods you've drifted into by blaming whatever it was you were blaming for how your life has turned out so far.  You'll have the power to make better choices, and the understanding to see the better results.  So take the responsibility, because it's yours.  Sure, it'll probably feel scary at first.  That just means you're doing it right, so don't stop.  This is your chance to do something, right now.  Trust it.  Do it.  Talk to you soon...

The Personal Power Coach